THE GOD OF SMALL THINGS

during vacations i read "the god of small things" ...a very slow story told in a really exciting way..
the story deals with very numerous small incidents n comments which do not seem important but may ve a gr8 impact....




deeply obsessed by the message the book conveys,i decided 2 give a vent 2 my thoughts..




we overlook a number of small things of joy n sorrow while following big things...busy in this materialistic world 2 earn luxuries n comforts we forget that lyf is there 2 b lived every moment with good and/or bad times at their turns..


we strive hard 4 happiness but usually happiness is around us...bas woh nazarein chahiye..
kuchh chhotti par motti baatein hamesha yaadgaar ban jaati hain..jo baad mein bhi humein kahin na kahin support karti hain..
hum mein se kitne hi logon ne khul ke baarish ka mazaa liya hoga..bahut honge.magar tym ke saath hum bhool jaatein hain ki nature mein aisa bahut kuch hai dat makes us feel relaxed n comfortable..
the main thing is how u see lyf n how much contented u r with what u have....



i received an sms dat really impressed me...



HAPPINESS IS LYK BUTTERFLIES
IF U RUN AFTER THEM,THEY FLY AWAY
WHEN U DO NOTHING, THEY SILENTLY COME N SIT ON UR SHOULDER
WISHING U A LOT OF BUTTERFLIES IN LYF
SSSSSSSSSSHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!! DON'T MOVE....

SHOULD WE LIE???????

jhooth bolna paap hai....nadi kinare saamp hai..bachpan mein ye kafi logon ne suna hoga..

kya sach mein jhooth bolna paap hai..??

aise hi sochte sochte mujhe laga dat i shud share this with others too.

i know many of us will ridicule a person if one says that he doesn't lie!!!
but still if see the deeper side ...isnt it a gr8 thing not 2 lie ever in lyf..

in todays world of materialism n competition where nobody cares abt moral values honesty...everyone is selfish in his own way..i may also b one if them but i ve not judged myself yet..
who's there who can say that he never lies..u'll also feel there's nobody..but kahin na kahin abhi kuch aise idealistic log honge jo kab se ek tarah ki tapasya kar rahe hain jhooth na bol kar!!!!


most of the times we lie 4 our self interest but there may b a number of instances when we lie just 2 respect other person's feeling..i ve xperienced an instance recently dats y this thought is fresh in my mind..
incomplete lie ya adhoora sach is another thing i want 2 mention..
i can cite xample 4m mythology where an incomplete lie changed the whole scenario..
in mahabharat when dronacharya was invincible n pandavas were at verge of loss yudhishthira who was known 4 his truth told dronacharya that ashwathama had been killed...dronacharya mistook him n thought that his own son had been killed
actually yudhishthira was correct on his part bcoz he confirmed the death of ashwathma which was also the name of an elephant.... dronacharya then surrendered..n panadavas ultimately won..


in my point of view i feel that we shudn't lie until required very urgently..lie is ok till it does not hurt others feelings...the world is full of give n take...whatever u give 2 world u receive it back in one or another form...
i always try my best not 2 hurt others feelings but on some occasions i realised it after i had done everything..
if u tell a lie in order 2 play a prank u must immediately admit it..lie can b used 2 give surprises 2 ur close ones ...in dat case a smile on ur frnd's face seems more important than the sin of telling a lie..
another point is not 2 tell anything ...just remain silent...atleast u ve a reason that u didnt lie but remained meek n composed..

pata nahi maine kya kya likh daala ..jo bhi likha bas likha ..atleast i gave an outlet 2 my feelings ......